Parsha’s reflection on greatness of our women


At the beginning of our parasha, Sh’lach, Hashem tells Moshe: “Send out for yourself men (shelach lecha anashim) who will scout the Land of Canaan, which I am giving to the children of Israel. You shall send one man each for his father’s tribe; each one shall be a chieftain in their midst’.” (Bamidbar 13:2)

Rashi, basing himself on Talmud Bavli 34b, notes that Hashem had no interest in sending these men to Eretz Yisrael. Instead, he merely allowed Moshe to do so — shelach lecha:

“According to your own understanding. I am not commanding you, but if you wish, you may send. Since the Jews had come [to Moshe] and said, ‘Let us send men ahead of us,’ as it says, ‘All of you approached me’.” (Devarim 1:22)

The concluding word in the phrase, “shelach lecha anashim,” also needs to be carefully analyzed. After all, who else, other than the anashim could Moshe have sent?

The answer is deceptively simple: Moshe could have sent nashim (women). The origin of this idea is found in the Kli Yakar, the celebrated 16th century Torah commentary of Rabbi Shlomo Ephraim of Luntchitz:

“Our Sages of blessed memory [Midrash Yalkut Shimoni, Parashat Pinchas] noted that the men despised the Land and declared: Let us appoint a leader and return to Egypt. [In contrast,] the women loved the Land and said: Give us a permanent portion. Therefore, the Holy One Blessed Be He said: According to My opinion, since I see what the future will bring, it is far better to send women that love the land for they will not speak about it in a disparaging and negative manner. But you, [Moshe], believe that these men are in fact fine and upstanding individuals, and you believe that the Land is beloved to them — Go ahead and send men! This is why when the Torah writes: Send for yourself men, [Rashi] interprets it as according to your own understanding; as for Me however, it would have been far better to send women.”

This amazing statement of Rav Luntchitz speaks volumes about the unique character of Jewish women. Remember, it was the Jewish women who refused to give up hope amid the misery and backbreaking labor of Egypt and encouraged their husbands, in kedushah and taharah (purity), to bring another generation of Jews into the world. Moreover, it was the Jewish women who steadfastly refused to participate in the Egel HaZahav (the incident of the Golden Calf). Little wonder, then, that it could have been the Jewish women who would have set the stage for our grand entrance into Eretz Yisrael, with Moshe as Mashiach, if they had only been given the opportunity!